A Simple Word
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Children are so important. It is just too easy to ignore their needs and push them aside.
And although some children are demanding and make sure that someone gives them attention, too many just want to please their parents and will go along for years not sharing their hearts.
My two children have recently experience the loss of their beloved grandmother. They ache when they smell lavender lotion which reminds them of Nana. They constantly talk about Fridays with Nana when we would all go out to lunch. Years ago she would walk briskly into the restaurant. Then she began to use her cane and for the past few years I pushed her in the wheelchair. But no matter how we had to change it, Friday was lunch with Nana.
Children like routine. They love consistency and knowing what to expect. So what did they opt for this past Friday? You are right. Lunch with Papa. With all the gusto that kids can muster they quickly made those Five Guy burgers and fries disappear. Laughter filled the room. Peace was on their faces.
So what was the word? Maybe it was one or two well chosen words and times when I asked each one of them “How are you?” And I meant it. For that moment I put aside my own hurt and loss and attended to them. I listened as they shared their sadness. I cared.
How thankful I am to know the importance of tending the heart of a child. Just letting children know that you care makes all the difference in their life and growth.
So make sure that you not only hug your child today but also listen to their hearts. Point them to the One Who will always be there for them. Be the reassurance and peace they need. In so doing your own hurts will begin to heal too. Remember the power of a simple word.
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