Benefits of a Bad Economy
Monday, September 28, 2009
What impact is the economy having on our children?
Is there any way that a bad economy can benefit children?
Yes, that is the question which troubles millions of parents as family belts are tightening forcing cutbacks that affect children. Then with the holidays right around the corner, parents anticipate sad faces and disappointed looks around the Christmas tree.
But there is a silver lining. All is not bad. These challenging times offer kids some benefits if parents handle it right.
All too often we shield our children from adversity trying to keep them happy. In doing so we often deprive them of the practice they need in navigating rough waters. When facing difficult situations our children can learn valuable lessons in how to develop resilience. So the first benefit for our kids is in learning to handle disappointment.
The second is in helping our children learn appreciation and thankfulness. Less really is more. We’ve known that for years but now we have the opportunity to experience it.
It is wise for parents to acknowledge honestly the family’s reduction in resources. The resources must be shared among everyone. In so doing children learn that the needs of family and community are important along with their personal needs.
Lastly there is the potential for increased family closeness. Instead of everyone retreating into their separate corners with cell phones and iPods, parents can lead the way with family movies, baking cookies, bike rides, talking together, etc.
Yes, a bad economy can benefit our children in more ways than those listed. It’s all in how we see it.
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