Spiritual care for Adopted Children
Sunday, April 5, 2009
The past eight weeks have been a difficult but also meaningful part of my journey. My sweet mom, dear Nana, went from the hospital back to her beloved home. There she graced our lives from the hospital bed. My daughters and I spent lots of time with her. and now
even as I am writing this
her life is coming to an end.
I have been learning a lot lately not only about this stage of life but also ways to help children grieve. More than ever I realize the importance of spiritual care for our children.
We are all different. Children are different not only in size and personality but in oh so many ways. My oldest daughter whom I adopted from Russia at 6 months old has a bright, social personality. During these difficult days, weeks and months it has been very important for her to continue to be with people. Activities with friends have helped her to keep focused on life. Without that her heart would have been ripped in pieces.
My youngest daughter is more introspective. She thinks deeply, ponders, slowly and enjoys quiet moments of reflection. She has spent time with me often coloring another picture or talking about the hurt of losing Nana. From the time I brought her home at two almost three years old she spent a lot of time with her grandparents. They showered her with love and affection.
Nana,although limited physically, entered Jenny’s world of homeschooling. Together they enjoyed Bible class and Arithmetic.
Yes, we have cried together and laughed together. Life will never be the same for us here. But God will provide for our every need. I have no doubt about that.
Throughout life, no matter what you are facing, make sure to meet the spiritual needs of your children. I will share more about this in my next blog.
Posted in Adoption , Inspirational | 2 Comments
Kathy — April 8, 2009 @ 6:44 AM
Sharon — April 8, 2009 @ 9:02 AM
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