The Choice

Sunday, July 12, 2009

“You chose,” she said. The words hit me harder than she intended when she said them. And for the next few hours and days I’ve been pondering the deeper impact of my choice.

Yes, adoption is a choice. Adopting as a single woman is a choice. Along with that choice was the understanding that I would work hard to raise my daughters. Money might not always be abounding but we have love, laughter and life. Lots of life.

The choice to parent sometimes caused a change in relationships. Adopting at an older age also brought a change. At a time when my peers are caring for grandchildren I am parenting a teenager and an elementary age child. Instead of doing many other good things I am working,homeschooling and raising my children. A choice. My choice. Our choice.

Life is not always easy. There are no simple answers. But quite honestly the decision I made 16 years ago was a good choice for me. I look back now and am grateful for all that I have learned and experienced as the mother of two adopted children. I’m thankful for the ones along the way who have whispered words of encouragement and wisdom. I’m continuing to look forward to the days ahead with hope and excitement and adventure.

Easy? No. Nothing worthwhile is ever easy.

So how do you feel about your choice to adopt? Whether it’s been just weeks or many years it changed your life.  Let the choices continue to build your life by surrendering the outcome to God. He’s orchestrating them anyway and we can trust Him.

Posted in Adoption , Inspirational | 2 Comments

I'm still trying to decide.. is now the right time? What agency do I choose? What country do I adopt from, as I do feel led towards international adoption. I know this is God's heart for me.. His plan for me. I don't doubt that for a minute. There are so many orphans. Where is the first child I'm supposed to adopt? Which child has the Lord handpicked for me? That's why I'm wondering if now is the time.. I just don't know which way to go right now.

Laura Bloedel — July 28, 2009 @ 10:05 AM

Laura, I am deeply touched by your words. The desire in your heart is so important. Very often that is what God uses to get our attention. I remember years ago when I spun the globe and prayed "wherever Lord...wherever she is I am willing. Just lead me." Through a process of circumstances He led me to Russia and I adopted my 6month old daughter. Today she is a beautiful 16 year old. She too claims, "We were meant to be together." I would be glad to speak with you and help you sort this out. Just call me or email me.

Sharon — July 28, 2009 @ 10:12 AM

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